Prepare it for the outside world? How sure are you that you are helping it by how you treat it? Maybe this is how you create an unhappy, fearful and angry teenager and adult?
If you label your child "you're stupid", "you're lazy", "you don't deserve to be loved", etc.
And if you make fun of your child all the time.... Your child will believe that what you say to him/ her is actually true because a small child will think "If mom and dad are saying that I am stupid they know better.
Therefore, I am stupid" And then he will start behaving accordingly and he will end up not having self- love, not believing in him /her self and he / she will feel inferior and ashamed in front of others.
How will this help your child become a wise and strong person? And not a victim of others?
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